Its much more important to judge others based off what they value, or their motivations behind their choices, rather than what they do for a living.There can be honor, empathy, and understanding in any act, in any choice that we make ( generally) depending on context. Context is everything. And because I now know more about you , because I understand you more, I respect and support the choices made. Thats not to say I didn't or wouldn't have respected you before, but having never met I cant say, honestly, that I wouldn't have made a negative judgement or jumped to a baseless, inappropriate conclusion. Thank you for sharing your story.